Your situation
You said: everyone says yes, and then it is left lying.
You said: it comes back to you, or you solve it yourself.
You said: it goes well as long as you ask about it.
You said: you have tried all sorts, and nothing has changed.
And you see it mostly with agreements from the meeting. What belongs to everyone belongs to no one.
And you see it mostly with new ways of working. The old way takes no effort.
And you see it mostly with holding each other to account. Whoever speaks up to a colleague puts the relationship at stake.
Saying yes in the meeting is the easiest choice.
In the meeting, agreeing costs nothing. After that the agreement has no name, no date and no moment when someone asks about it. Ordinary work then wins by itself.
Tomorrow, close every agreement with one name and one date, out loud. Start the next meeting with that list.
As long as you solve it, nobody else has to.
Your team has learned that waiting works: you pick it up, faster and better. For them that is the easiest route, and for you too.
Tomorrow, hand back one thing that landed on your desk. Ask what the other person needs to finish it, and do not solve it yourself.
The work hangs on your attention.
As long as you ask about it, it happens. So the behaviour is tied to you and not yet to the team’s routine. When your attention goes, the behaviour goes.
Tomorrow, find one fixed moment in the week when the team looks at the state of things itself, without you. That is where the work becomes theirs.
You kept pushing harder. What holds people back is still there.
Explanation, arguments and pressure all work on the same side: they push. The doubts and comforts that keep people with the old way stay where they are. As long as they do, pushing harder mostly produces more counter-pressure.
Tomorrow, plan no new action. First map what is holding people back. Then you know what to remove.
The Art of Influence© · 2 days · AmsterdamThe Art of Influence© · online · 33 lessons
After the training you see why agreements are left lying. And you know how to change the situation, so your team picks them up itself.
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