Your situation
You said: questions and objections come, and a decision does not.
You said: everyone is positive, and then you hear nothing.
You said: they say yes, and when it comes to doing it you are on your own.
You said: you have tried all sorts, and nothing has changed.
And you mostly need the top. A board weighs your plan against everything it would have to leave undone.
And you mostly need people you are not in charge of. Then influence is all you have, and it starts with what they gain.
And you mostly need the people who carry it out. To them your plan is extra work, until you show what gets lighter.
Every question is a doubt that has no answer yet.
Whoever keeps asking is not saying no. They see a risk you have not removed yet: to their budget, their planning or their position. More evidence for the plan does not help with that.
Tomorrow, ask the two most critical people what could go wrong if they say yes. Write it down and adjust your proposal. Then present it again.
Being positive costs nothing. Choosing does.
In the meeting, agreeing is the easiest route. Afterwards your plan competes with everything already on someone’s plate, and what is urgent wins.
Tomorrow, ask one person for one small, visible step: a name under the proposal, or a slot on the agenda. Whoever takes a first step takes the second more easily.
You got a yes for the idea. Carrying it out was not part of it.
People agreed with the goal. What it costs them day to day came later: extra work, and less time for what they were already doing. It looks like dropping out and is simple arithmetic.
Tomorrow, find out what your plan costs the people who carry it out, and take one thing off their plate. Show that you did.
You kept pushing harder. What holds people back is still there.
Explanation, arguments and pressure all work on the same side: they push. The doubts and comforts that keep people with the old way stay where they are. As long as they do, pushing harder mostly produces more counter-pressure.
Tomorrow, plan no new action. First map what is holding people back. Then you know what to remove.
The Art of Influence© · 2 days · AmsterdamThe Art of Influence© · online · 33 lessons
After the training you see what people need in order to say yes. And you know how to build that into your plan, so they choose it themselves.
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