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Persuasion training · 2 days · Amsterdam

Your story is right. And still nobody acts.

Your reader decides on feeling, not on your arguments. How much influence your words have depends on how you design that moment. In two days you learn how, for a conversation, an email or a proposal.

For communication professionals, marketers, policymakers, consultants and managers who need words to get things done.

What you learn here

You learn how your recipient really decides. You build your message on that, instead of on your own reasoning. On Monday you use it for your own email, proposal or campaign.

Make my message land →

Behavioural Design Fundamentals · the next English edition is announced here · € 1,490 excl. VAT

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10,000+ people trained · rated 9.3 out of 10 on Springest · EQAC-certified

10,000+
Professionals trained
9.3/10
Springest
EQAC
Certified
2 days
Live in Amsterdam
KPN ANWB Randstad Achmea Eneco Centraal Beheer Heineken
Trainer at the flipchart in front of the group during the course in Amsterdam Participants mapping the forces behind a decision on a wall covered in post-its Participants listening at the table during the two-day course in Amsterdam

Two days at the 's-Gravenhekje, Amsterdam

Do you recognise this?

The message was clear. Nothing happened.

The email with every argument

You listed the benefits, pre-empted the objections, added the numbers. Nobody replies. It was clear enough. There was just nothing in it that gave anyone a reason to move.

The campaign everyone understood

The audience knew exactly what you meant. The research proved it. And then hardly anyone did what the campaign asked. Getting it isn't doing it.

The proposal they called "clear"

You were complimented on the structure. Then it disappeared into a drawer. A proposal that is right is not yet a proposal someone says yes to now.

Better wording won't fix this. What works is designing your recipient's decision.

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What can you do after two days?

You know how the recipient decides before you write a single line.

Two participants working out a message together on paper during the course
Step 1

You do your recipient's sums

What do they gain, what do they lose, what do others do and how much effort does a yes cost. You use the SUE | Influence Framework© for that.

Step 2

You frame on loss, norm and effort

You build your message on one force, instead of on every benefit at once. And you time your proposal or campaign for the moment someone chooses. You design that with framing and the SUE | SWAC Tool©.

Step 3

You test small before it goes big

An email to ten people, a variant of the landing page, a conversation with the first two. You know whether your message works before the whole organisation sees it.

Together these steps are the Behavioural Design Method©. You learn all three on your own message.

What do the two days look like?

Day one the recipient, day two the message.

Day 1 · Diagnosing the recipient

  • Why people do not do what they say, and what that means for every message you write.
  • Mapping the four forces behind a decision for your recipient, with the SUE | Influence Framework©.
  • Your own case: an email, proposal or campaign that is not landing right now.

Day 2 · Designing and testing the message

  • Framing: the same content, a different decision. Loss, social norm and effort as levers.
  • Designing the moment of choice with the SUE | SWAC Tool©.
  • AI as a writing aid: you have it write variants of your message on the force you chose. Then you test them small.

Two consecutive days · 's-Gravenhekje, Amsterdam · at most 16 participants · you work on your own message

How is this different from a persuasion skills course?

Most courses work on you. Here you work on the other person's decision.

Classic persuasion or presentation courseBehavioural Design Fundamentals
What you practiseYour posture, argumentation and voiceYour recipient's decision: what moves them and what holds them back
Where it worksAt the table and in front of a groupAlso in an email, a campaign, a policy text and a form
What you take homeTips and exercisesA design method plus the Behavioural Design Toolkit, applied to your own case
Length and groupUsually 1 to 2 days2 days, at most 16 participants, Amsterdam
RecognitionVaries by providerEQAC-certified certificate, rated 9.3 out of 10 by participants

Want to speak with more confidence in front of a group? Then choose a presentation course. Want people to do what your message asks? Then you're in the right place.

What is persuasiveness, really?

It's a skill, and there are four dials you can turn.

The people we call "natural persuaders" usually got early and frequent feedback on how they came across. What looks like talent is simply a lot of practice hours. With a method you catch up faster.

Persuasiveness works on four forces that steer every decision. Map those four clearly for one recipient. Then you stop hunting for words. They come by themselves, because now you know why someone says no.

  • Gain. What does the recipient stand to gain, socially too: who do they become by saying yes?
  • Loss. What is at stake if they do not act? People move faster to avoid a loss than to secure a gain.
  • What others do. The social norm outweighs the best argument.
  • Effort. How many steps sit between reading and doing? Every step costs you recipients.

Definition

Persuasiveness is the ability to design a message so that the recipient acts on it. It is a skill that works on four forces: what the recipient gains, what they lose, what others do and how much effort a yes costs.

Charisma draws people towards you. Persuasiveness gets them moving. So charisma helps, but it doesn't replace persuasiveness.

Trainers from practice

You learn from people who do this work every week.

Kirsten Kremer, trainer and consultant at SUE Behavioural Design

Kirsten Kremer

Trainer & consultant

Works where Behavioural Design meets people and culture strategy and wellbeing programmes. Helps organisations understand human behaviour and steer it in a positive direction.

Birgitta Vrins, trainer and consultant at SUE Behavioural Design

Birgitta Vrins

Trainer & consultant

Combines behavioural science with sustainability and healthcare. She makes change stick, in people, in organisations and in society.

Mylene Samuels, trainer and consultant at SUE Behavioural Design

Mylene Samuels

Trainer & consultant

Founder of the Behavioural Design Circle at ABN AMRO. More than 25 years of marketing experience where customer experience, propositions and behaviour change meet.

Thijs Perquin, product designer and UX strategist at SUE Behavioural Design

Thijs Perquin

Product designer & UX strategist

Turns behavioural science into practical solutions in products and services. Teams that work with him innovate faster.

What participants say

9.3 out of 10, and 98% recommend the course.

★★★★★

SUE Behavioural Design gives you a powerful and practical framework to effectively influence customers and clients. They are focused on client insights that lead to changing behaviour.

Erik Jan Coenraad Marketing manager, KPN

★★★★★

I had very nice and inspiring days, with both insights and practical tips and examples to apply in my practice as a communication professional.

Karine van den Noort Communication expert and owner, De Communicatie Experts

★★★★★

In my projects, this led to surprising behavioural interventions and great satisfaction among my clients.

Josette Häger Strategic communication consultant

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What you take home

You leave with the tools we work with ourselves.

Group of participants laughing around the table during the course in Amsterdam

Behavioural Design
Fundamentals

  • The Behavioural Design Toolkit: Influence Framework Canvas, CAN, WANT and AGAIN cards, Jobs-to-be-Done Canvas, Behavioural Interview Guide, Behavioural Statement and Prototyping Guide. You have already used them on your own message here.
  • The BD × AI Mentor after purchase: three weeks later you are sitting alone with your proposal, and that is when it thinks along with you in ChatGPT, Claude, Copilot or Gemini.
  • The EQAC-certified Behavioural Design Fundamentals certificate, with an invoice in your company's name.
  • Membership of the BD Club, the network of 10,000+ professionals who use the same method.

€ 1,490 excl. VAT · including toolkit, lunch and certificate

Next start dates

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Not for you if

  • you mainly want to practise presenting, voice and body language;
  • you are looking for a debating course;
  • you expect a sales script to learn by heart.

Want to learn this with your whole team, on your own campaigns and proposals? See the courses for your team →

Frequently asked questions

Persuasion training, answered briefly.

By learning how your recipient decides, and designing your message around that. Collecting more arguments barely helps. You build that skill regardless of your personality. In two days you learn to make the diagnosis, design the message and test it small before it goes big.

By doing your recipient's sums before you write: what do they gain, what do they lose, what do others do and how much effort does a yes cost. Build your message on one of those forces instead of on every benefit at once.

Persuasion is about your message, influence is about the situation around it. On the course you learn both. This page is about the message: what you say, write and present, so that it lands.

For communication professionals, marketers, policymakers, consultants and managers who need words to get things done. You don't need any prior knowledge. Do bring a message or problem of your own.

Two consecutive days at the 's-Gravenhekje in Amsterdam, in groups of at most 16 participants. The next dates and the number of open seats are on this page.

€ 1,490 excl. VAT, including the Behavioural Design Toolkit, lunch, the EQAC-certified certificate, the BD × AI Mentor after purchase and membership of the BD Club.

No. Manipulation works against the interest of the recipient. Behavioural Design makes it easier to choose what someone wants themselves, and the ethical line is part of the course.

Further reading

Persuasion, explained.

Read the complete guide to persuasion and influence →

Two days, 's-Gravenhekje, Amsterdam

A message persuades when it fits how your reader decides. Fine sentences matter much less.

Behavioural Design Fundamentals · € 1,490 excl. VAT · the start dates are further up this page