Your situation
You said: enthusiasm in the room, and two weeks later the old behaviour.
You said: a few managers really change, the rest do not.
You said: you are still looking for something that sticks.
You said: all sorts has been done, and it keeps getting stuck.
And they decide too much themselves. Everyone knows you should delegate more. Look at what makes letting go risky on Monday.
And they avoid difficult conversations. Avoiding is the easiest path. Make the conversation easier, not the leader braver.
And they say the new thing and do the old. The team follows their behaviour, not their words.
Leadership is what you do on Monday. Monday has not changed.
The training changed the leader for two days. The Monday after was the same: the same agenda, the same pressure from above. And in the moment, the old habit beat the good intention. Inspiration rarely survives Monday.
Tomorrow, pick one moment in a manager's week when the new behaviour has to happen. Change that moment, for example with a fixed question in the team meeting. Designing moments like that is what you learn in two days.
Do not look at who changed. Look at what was different around them.
The few managers who show the new behaviour probably had a boss who asked for it. Or a meeting with room for it. The rest did not. What the team sees, the team does. And whoever sets up the meeting decides what happens in it.
Tomorrow, compare the environment of one leader who changed with that of one who did not. The difference is your design brief.
Do not start with a profile. Start with one behaviour at one moment.
A leadership profile describes everything at once. So nothing changes. Behaviour changes one moment at a time: this conversation, this meeting.
Tomorrow, pick the one behaviour that makes the biggest difference to the team. And the one moment in the week when it has to happen. Then look at what makes the old behaviour easier there. Usually it is the fixed way the meeting runs.
You wanted to change the leaders. Design the situation they lead in.
Inspiration, profiles, appraisals: every approach made the leader the subject. After years of models and sessions, people get used to it. And a programme that is imposed triggers resistance. What managers do depends on their agenda, their own boss and what carries the least risk on Monday.
Tomorrow, plan no new programme. First map what holds the current leadership behaviour in place. Then design the environment that holds the new behaviour.
Behavioural Design Fundamentals · 2 days · AmsterdamBehavioural Design Fundamentals · online · 33 lessons
After two days you see why leadership behaviour slips back. And you know how to design the situation that holds the new behaviour.After the 33 lessons you see why leadership behaviour slips back. And you know how to design the situation that holds the new behaviour.
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