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Welcome to The Happiness Code

Here you will find all the tools, questionnaires and the interactive Happiness Leak diagnosis tool to immediately apply the insights from the book to your life.

Happiness should not be sought within yourself, but in your environment.
Interactive tool

The Happiness Leak Test

Discover where your happiness leaks and where it flows. Choose your context, answer 40 questions, and receive a personalized analysis with rules that work for you.

Choose your context
Who do you want to crack the happiness code for?
Places

Partners who want to deepen their relationship

Teams

Colleagues who want to increase job satisfaction

Managers

Leaders who make happiness possible

Families

Everyone under one roof

From insight to action

The Happiness Code Step-by-Step Plan

Happiness doesn't change by reading about it, but by doing things differently. Follow these five steps to crack the happiness code.1

1
Discover your leaks
Individueel

Take the self-assessment and discover where your happiness is leaking away. Which of the four contexts (curiosity, flow, skill, or connection) offers the most room for improvement?

2
Share what you discovered
Together

Discuss your results with your partner, team, or family. Use the discussion questions from the test. Listen without judging. The goal is to understand, not to solve.

3
Design game rules
Maximum 5

Choose a maximum of five concrete game rules together. Use the universal rules as a starting point and tailor them to your situation.

4
Start today
Direct

Start with an easy rule. Success creates momentum. Post the rules in a visible place. Make them unavoidable.

5
Plan your rhythm
To persevere

Schedule a weekly check-in. Evaluate monthly which rules are working. After six months, take the self-assessment again and compare your results.

The basics

The 7 Universal Rules of the Game

These seven rules work in any context. Whether you're collaborating with colleagues, deepening a relationship, or running a family, they form the foundation of the happiness code.

1
The technology rule of the game

We put our phones away during conversations

2
The listening rule

We listen without interrupting or resolving immediately

3
The focus rule

We protect concentration time

4
The playing rule

We make room for something that doesn't have to lead to anything

5
The discovery game rule

We ask questions we don't know the answer to

6
The feedback rule

We regularly provide constructive feedback without judgement

7
The Vulnerability Rule

We make it safe to share challenges

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About the book

The Happiness Code

How do you become happy? Behavioral scientist Astrid Groenewegen shows in The Happiness Code that we shouldn't focus on ourselves, but on our surroundings.

Within four concrete contexts (curiosity, flow, skill, and connection), happiness can arise naturally. Not by tinkering with yourself, but by arranging your environment in such a way that happiness becomes inevitable.

Astrid Groenewegen

Expert in applied behavioral science and founder of SUE | Behavioural Design Academy. She previously wrote "The Art of Behavioural Design," which was ranked number one in the Management Book Top 100.

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Do you want more?

You read in the book that happiness has a social DNA. Want to design your own happiness context? You can! Order the book for someone else or take a training course with your team.

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Happiness has a social DNA; it works best when shared. Know someone who should read this book? Order it as a gift.

Training voor teams

In a one-day training, teams learn how to detect happiness leaks and jointly design game rules that structurally improve job satisfaction and well-being.